Friday, April 27, 2007

Good Day vs Bad Day

The difference between having a good day and a bad day is sometimes just how you look at things. The knuckleheads who irritate you are not going to change the way they operate just because you get irritated. It’s going to take a whole lot more to change them. So, the issue then becomes not why they won’t change, but rather, why what they do bothers you. So, do a little soul searching and try to figure some of that out. In the meantime, have some rules in place and if they violate those rules they pay the consequences. There. How easy was that? You didn’t have to get mad either. And, if they start playing mind games with you and trying to bend you to their will just say, “No” and be done with it.

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