What you really could use is a new perspective on an old situation. For you certainly, as the old saying goes, cannot see the forest for the trees. You are likely so immersed in the events of your own life that it is difficult to step back to have a look at what is going on.
In the best sense of what a psychic can do for you is to give you something to think about. It is always up to you whether you wish to follow the advice.
You can also get advice from relatives, from friends and from co-workers. But, you might also consider that the advice you get from them could very possibly be tainted with what they think they know of you particularly if they’ve known you for a long time and pride themselves on being uber familiar with you.
Everybody has secrets. There is always that one little corner of your heart that you don’t really tell people about. Or, if you have told them perhaps they haven’t really understood exactly how you feel. This distortion of what a person thinks they know about you is certainly going to affect the kind of advice they give you.
Also, if they’ve got their own personal axe to grind any advice you get from them is going to slant toward and support whatever causes they are in favor of.
So, you listen to advice, mull it over and decide to take it or not. Maybe you can keep the advice given to you in mind and customize the plan, doing it your way.